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Yesterday was a busy day for mom. Her brothers and sisters and their spouses came down to visit. All but Aunt Marie who lives in California. They were here by mid-morning. Mom enjoyed her time with them. She was coherent and had a good time visiting. Us girls stuck around in the background listening to memories of the good old days! They took pictures and said their good-byes, most of them for the last time. It was very emotional. It was a happy reunion. Mom was worn out after they left, but it was worth it to see them all again.
Today Mom is exhausted. She isn't as lively as she has been for the past two days. She is just worn out. Hopefully she will be doing better tomorrow after a good days rest.
Hello, I am not known by your family except by Kuliana and we only met briefly.
ReplyDeleteI have been watching your blog since the beginning and have really been thinking/reflecting a lot about the process that is taking place in your family. I too have a brother being taken by cancer. At two other times in my life I have seen the effects of cancer and death, with people whom I loved dearly.
In each of those situations I witnessed two very different methods of being able to cope and heal from the loss of a loved one.
I saw a family who didn't have the Gospel in their lives turn to anger and grief (later, drugs, alcohol and complete atheism). While during the other, the family became closer to Christ and the teachings of the Gospel and embracing in faith the plan of salvation. This family was able to find happiness again while still cherishing the time they had with their wife and mother. They knew where their mom had went and found peace that she returned home to all our loved ones that had passed on before. The concept of a forever family became not only very real but desired and obtainable. Your family is strong and united and although you may have days that you feel like your heart is breaking, Christ will carry you through and heal all the pain that you will feel. I felt impressed to tell you to hold fast to your faith that Norma will be waiting and cheering each of you on as you each continue through life's journey. Also I know that because at times the veil is so thin she will be there to witness; births, weddings, joy, heartaches and she will be there to hold your hand as you come to terms with your grief.
Thank you for letting so many of us share of your testimonies and strength. You're faith and love has shown me that my family is not alone and that we too can press forward as we sojourn on in our journey with cancer.
May God bless your family in your time of need.
Amanda Mitchell